"Ben is the best for sure at saying 'Sweetheart, we need to talk about this' if he senses I am irritated or upset about something," says Jessa Seewald revealed to people and then add "It's important not to turn away,"
"The most important thing is humility and putting the other person first," he says. "I try to make that my perspective – I'm here to serve her and help her. What can I do to make her life easier?"
In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE at their home in Springdale, Arkansas, the newest Seewalds have much more to share on what they've learned – and say they are learning.
DO: TALK IT THROUGH
"It's important not to build walls or turn away from hard topics," says Jessa. "Not like, 'I am going to take my feelings and close off from you and build a little wall there.' The 'I'm-going-to-show-you attitude' really hurts. It's always best to open up and talk about things."
DON'T: YELL OR SCREAM
While yelling is "not the tendency" in the Seewald home, Jessa says, she also cautions that not being willing to talk about an issue can be problematic.
"Clamming up is just as bad [as yelling], she says.
DO: BUDGET
"We have been thinking about finances a lot lately," says Ben, who says he and Jessa want to avoid getting into debt and try not to waste money.
In addition to Duggar-type bargain hunting – Jim Bob and Michelle have often discussed their goal to "buy used and save the difference" on their show – Ben insists that giving money away is also important to the couple.
"If God blesses us with money, we want to find ways to give it to others who need help," he says.
DON'T: SKIP DATE NIGHT
Jessa says that Ben takes her out on date nights "sometimes twice a week" to romantic dinners or trips to the local ice cream parlor.
"Dates are investing in our marriage," Ben says. "That's a good way to spend our money."
I never believed in spell not until i met Dr. White. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids. I felt like my life was about to end, i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr. White who i met online. That faithful day, I was browsing through the internet, I came across a lot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restored womb, cured cancer, and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. I also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Sonia, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr. White personal email address. After reading all these testimonies, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via his email (Contact Dr. White via his personal email: doctorwhitespellshrine@gmail.com) and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before, Dr. White is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real Solution and Genuine Spell Caster to solve all your Problems for you, Contact Dr. White via his personal email: doctorwhitespellshrine@gmail.com. He Will be the Answer to your Problems. With His powers He can turn your dreams into reality.Contact Dr. White via his personal email today: doctorwhitespellshrine@gmail.com.
ReplyDeleteHE CAN ALSO HELP WITH THE FOLLOWING:
1. Bring your ex boyfriend back
2. Bring your ex girlfriend back
3. Take your ex husband back
4. Bring your ex wife back
5. That someone you desire to love you
6. Get back your scammed money
7. cure any type of disease (especially HIV/AIDS)
8. Get a good job
9. Get your loan granted quickly
10. Get promotion in your office
11. Make Customs and immigration release your goods
12. Make the embassy grant your visa
13. Win Lottery
14. Make a divorce come through
15. Cancel a divorce process
16. Have a child of your own (if you are barren or sterile). AND MANY MORE!!!
CONTACT HIM NOW: doctorwhitespellshrine@gmail.com